Loading...
What it looks like:
Example:
Friend: "Help me move Saturday?"
You (have plans): "Um... okay..."
Result: Resentment builds. Your needs never get met.
What it looks like:
Example:
Friend cancels plans.
You: "You ALWAYS do this! So selfish!"
Result: People get defensive. Nothing gets solved.
What it looks like:
Example:
Friend cancels.
You: "I feel disappointed when plans change last minute. Can we reschedule?"
Result: Needs get met. Relationships strengthen.
What would you do?
Your teammate criticizes your play in front of everyone. You feel embarrassed and angry. What do you do?